Post by Sweet Meat aka CC on Jan 19, 2006 12:47:13 GMT -5
...for some peeps to take a hint?
Case and point...I kinda blew up at one of my acquaintances earlier today and had to apologize a lil' while afterwards. But it's like "damn, bamma, can you not take the hint to leave me be?!" I mean, I know I may get on some folks nerves every now and then, but I also know how to take hints when I know that they are busy or juss don't want to be bothered at the time. That's why if I'm not busy doin' some work and feel like callin' my bestest buddy who I have jokingly started callin' the oldest sis I neva had, the first thing I ask her if she picks up the phone is "are you busy". If she tells me yeah, I tell her to get back at me when she can or if she's not, we do some major gossipin'--lol!
But this bamma that she and I both talk to at times juss can't take a hint for some friggin' reason. I'm like "dude? are you really that slow?" That's why this mornin' I couldn't take anymore! She comes in here while I'm TRYNA listen to my good ol' T.D. Jakes and asks am I busy when it's so obvious that I am since papers are nearly piled up to my eyeballs. Before I could answer, she comes in and closes the door to talk about absolutely NOTHIN'! Now my doctor advised to me two weeks ago to try not to get stressed out so much because my bottom number was a lil' elevated although for the most part, my medicine along with my gettin' more rest has kept my pressure down for the most part. Anyhoo, ol' girl has been talkin' for about five minutes or so though I wasn't really listenin' when I heavily sighed and stopped what I was doin' while lookin' straight ahead. Then she asks what's wrong and I'm like "could you please come back lata?" and she wants to know why. That did it at that point. I told her that although we coo' I don't owe her an explanation and that I would juss like to be to myself for a while if it was aight with her. She gets pissed and leaves which makes me feel bad because I don't like to hurt people's feelin's. I ended up goin' to apologize to her but I also explained that now juss wasn't a good time for me to really talk. She apologized too and we're coo' again. But why do things like this have to get to that point in the first place? Ah well, like I said, I don't like to make anyone feel bad, but juss for once, I wish people would be a lil' more considerate about my feelin's. But then momma always jokes and tell me that I'm a good shoulder for othas to lean on which is true to an extent. But dang, maybe I need to lean on someone else's shoulder for a change although I juss like to keep to myself for the most part when I'm goin' through somethin'. ::Turnin' vent button off::
Case and point...I kinda blew up at one of my acquaintances earlier today and had to apologize a lil' while afterwards. But it's like "damn, bamma, can you not take the hint to leave me be?!" I mean, I know I may get on some folks nerves every now and then, but I also know how to take hints when I know that they are busy or juss don't want to be bothered at the time. That's why if I'm not busy doin' some work and feel like callin' my bestest buddy who I have jokingly started callin' the oldest sis I neva had, the first thing I ask her if she picks up the phone is "are you busy". If she tells me yeah, I tell her to get back at me when she can or if she's not, we do some major gossipin'--lol!
But this bamma that she and I both talk to at times juss can't take a hint for some friggin' reason. I'm like "dude? are you really that slow?" That's why this mornin' I couldn't take anymore! She comes in here while I'm TRYNA listen to my good ol' T.D. Jakes and asks am I busy when it's so obvious that I am since papers are nearly piled up to my eyeballs. Before I could answer, she comes in and closes the door to talk about absolutely NOTHIN'! Now my doctor advised to me two weeks ago to try not to get stressed out so much because my bottom number was a lil' elevated although for the most part, my medicine along with my gettin' more rest has kept my pressure down for the most part. Anyhoo, ol' girl has been talkin' for about five minutes or so though I wasn't really listenin' when I heavily sighed and stopped what I was doin' while lookin' straight ahead. Then she asks what's wrong and I'm like "could you please come back lata?" and she wants to know why. That did it at that point. I told her that although we coo' I don't owe her an explanation and that I would juss like to be to myself for a while if it was aight with her. She gets pissed and leaves which makes me feel bad because I don't like to hurt people's feelin's. I ended up goin' to apologize to her but I also explained that now juss wasn't a good time for me to really talk. She apologized too and we're coo' again. But why do things like this have to get to that point in the first place? Ah well, like I said, I don't like to make anyone feel bad, but juss for once, I wish people would be a lil' more considerate about my feelin's. But then momma always jokes and tell me that I'm a good shoulder for othas to lean on which is true to an extent. But dang, maybe I need to lean on someone else's shoulder for a change although I juss like to keep to myself for the most part when I'm goin' through somethin'. ::Turnin' vent button off::